HOW TO FIND LOVE IN THE CEREAL AISLE
BY ALISSA DEROGATIS | PUBLICATION: AUGUST 4, 2026COSMO READS | GENRE: WOMEN FICTION
RATING: ★★★✬
Ainsley Green writes happily-ever-afters for a rabid fanbase of hopeless romantics. In real life? Her boyfriend just broke up with her, her editor wanted a new book yesterday and she’s starting to wonder if love actually exists beyond the pages of her favorite novels.
So when Lucas, Ainsley’s best friend and biggest cheerleader, insists the best cure for writer’s block is real-life inspiration, she’s ready to try anything. Enter: the meet-cute plan, a mission to take her head out of her heartbreak and force meet-cutes IRL to spark some new ideas. But as failed missions bumping into strangers at the airport and spilling coffee on men at the cafe result in nothing but embarrassment and stained clothing, Ainsley begins to wonder if maybe the romance she’s been chasing already has a leading man.
Because the truth about falling in love? It never goes according to plan.
Equal parts heartbreak, humor, and hope, How to Find Love in the Cereal Aisle is a fresh, flirty send up of dating in the modern age and a reminder that love finds us when we stop performing and start living.
But to be fair — she’s a romance author. Big feelings are her brand.
This book is entirely centered on Ainsley and her emotional world: ME, MYSELF, AND I. And while I understand it — she’s reeling from a breakup — her voice had me exhausted at times. She spirals, she whines, she loops through the same insecurities. Yet despite my initial frustration with her, I found myself appreciating the parts of Ainsley that shine through the noise: the Ainsley who values her friends, who knows when to call for help, who tries her best to move forward, and who eventually recognizes her own worth. Those moments made her feel real.
What kept me reading was Alissa DeRogatis’s prose and execution. The pacing is smooth, the structure is clever, and there were no moments where I felt disengaged. The setup — alternating between the “NOW” chapters and the months leading up to her breakup — works beautifully. It’s a character driven narrative with good development and relatability in most aspects.
Lucas, meanwhile, is simply a bonus. A warm presence, a gentle addition, and ultimately someone I’m happy she has.
There’s a moment in the book where it talks about “keeping it real,” and the implication seems to be that authenticity requires a strong or engaged social media presence. That idea stopped me. It made me wonder: Does an author need a big online presence to be relatable? Is an author unrelatable without constant visibility?
To me, that part of the book does give the impression that social media is tied to authenticity — and I don’t agree. Many real authors today maintain tiny or nonexistent online footprints and still write deeply resonant, emotionally honest work. Authenticity comes from craft, vulnerability, and self awareness — not follower count.
So while I enjoyed the writing and appreciated the emotional arc, that modern publishing assumption is a bit of a conundrum. It’s not a flaw in the book, but it is a tension that shaped my view.
In the end, How to Find Love in the Cereal Aisle is heartfelt, well written, and often charming — but its emotional repetition and its nod to social media driven relatability kept it from reaching the full depth I hoped for.
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Alissa DeRogatis is the author of the viral debut Call It What You Want and How to Find Love in the Cereal Aisle. She lives in Charlotte, North Carolina, where she writes stories about modern love, self- discovery, and the people who help us put ourselves back together. When she’s not reading, she’s rewatching her favorite rom- coms, curating sad-girl playlists, or hang- ing out with her dogs, Asher and Oliver.
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